Changing Times
It amazes me how things have changed over the years. I don’t necessarily mean that in a good way either. While we have made great technological strides, I think these forward facing technological steps have made us take several steps backwards in common decency, manners and overall common goodwill.
It is so easy for millions of people to sit behind their keyboards and judge others openly and often harshly. It is as if they have forgotten that having a filter is a good thing. Just because we have a thought doesn’t necessarily mean we should blurt it out, no matter if it is in person or typing it out. Anonymity doesn’t mean that it is ok to be hurtful. And yet people often spout off whatever they want to others.
Maybe we should take a look at how people are treating each other and realize it is not ok. We have people who are defensive most of the time these days because they have dealt with some of these internet jockeys. It is difficult to not blast these people because, frankly, they’re nothing but cyber assholes and bullies. I typically want to stand up for whoever is being bullied. Sometimes, though, that just fans the flames.
But what I wonder is why these people feel it is ok to be the cyber asshole? It is becoming commonplace. It’s spilling over into real life and people are beginning to do this face-to-face. All of this is unacceptable.
Whatever happened to the Golden Rule? Do unto others as you would have them do unto you!!!! This is a great philosophy to live by. We might have a little more peaceful and civil environment if we did this. I know that people are jerks from time to time because they are human. We don’t have to add to it because we can.
We shouldn’t be so proud to be “tell it like it is” people. That’s just another cop out to be an asshole. It is one thing to speak your mind and it is another to be a jerk doing it. You don’t have to say what you think with a close-minded tone. You can give your opinion while being civil and it is not the hardest thing in the world to do. We should try it more often.
If we put as much effort into just being civil and courteous as we do into being heard and being right, we might have a more peaceful country. We might have more understanding and free flowing conversations. I know this is a lot to ask but I really wish people would focus more on lifting each other up instead of pushing each other down.